“You get what you tolerate. You are constantly teaching people how to treat you.” ~ Elise Burns-Hoffman
Melissa’s Words of Wisdom
How do you wish to be treated? Do people honor your wishes? If not, realize you are setting the example. It is up to YOU to create boundaries that, first and foremost, YOU honor and respect. If you don’t honor and respect your own boundaries, how can you expect others to? In order to create healthy boundaries for yourself, you must get very clear about what you will and won’t tolerate in your life… i.e. Others speaking rudely to you, being pushed around or pushed aside, others not honoring your time, being taken advantage of, being lied to, etc. It’s not only important for you to know what’s tolerable and what’s not, but it’s also important to plan ahead and know what you would do if one of your boundaries was crossed. You see, when one of our boundaries has been crossed, it usually generates negative energy for us, so clarity and planning ahead are our friends here! How will you communicate? How will you handle it? What will you do/say? Happy Creating Healthy Boundaries!
Remember, nothing happens until you decide to take action! Leave a comment below about how today’s Daily WOW has impacted your life and what inspired action you will take.
It’s time to A.C.T!
The C stands for CHANGE. What purposeful change will you make today?
The T stands for TEACH. What can you teach someone else today?
Write it out. Commit to it! Take inspired action, make purposeful changes, and teach what you have come to know with someone else who could benefit from your wisdom!! Nothing happens until you take ACTION!
It’s time to SHARE!
Please share with us what A.C.T.s you took today as well as hear from other readers? I encourage you to leave your experiences/testimonials, comments, and additional thoughts below.